No girl wants to be with me :(?

Well its all about confidence. I have two guys in my life who r just like you. They aren't ugly, they're sweet and kind as can be, they're always there for me. But, why am I not attracted to any of them? Cause they shyly tell me I'm awesome or that I'm smart. Also, I have to basically be the energetic one to make them actually talk to me, and like really talk to me. Its very tiring! Lol. Plus, I want to talk and actually do something with my friends instead of me just talking while he just stands there. My boyfriend and I do stuff such as me stealing his pencil or he steals my notes. Playfulness is also something to keep in mind. Also, most sweet guys text girls constantly. If you're doing that.. stop! haha. The girl will come back to you, so just lay low. Hope everything goes well!