A question for Christian guys/men?

The idea of one person being perfectly matched to you is romantic, and one that I held as a youth myself. Having been married for a number of years, and still very much in love with my wife, the idea of soul-mates is just romantic whimsy. People are compatible with each other on various levels, some more so than others. The trick is to find someone who complements your qualities so that you can work together to common goals effectively. A successful marriage is made up of two good compromisers.