Will a codependent put up with anything?

the "fruit loop" sounds almost bipolar~so is that what you are truly attracted to? Or do you really dig the drama?Which ever it is ~ is on you ~but what about y'all kids? How is this yo yo crap affecting them? Do you 2 realize what kind of "role models" you are for them? As long as she is allowed to do the back & forth thing she will~you are gonna end up loosing this "gorgeous,giving,funny gal" and then you'll really be looking crazy not only to your self but your family as well~it really sounds like you could use some therapy like from the local mental health clinic ~at least give them a shot before you end up with 000000's for the rest of your life~your kids deserve to see you trying to get help instead of being the drama king~the clinics charge on your ability to pay in case there isn't insurance~so just DO IT !!!!~good luck♦